Addendum (is that the word?) to the last post

A male friend of mine once asked me if I was in it for the chase alone, like most men.
For some strange reason, I sometimes take pride in how screwed up I am/can be, so I answered that once I had 'caught my prey', I was curious to see if it would stick around, knowing who had just caught it. Meaning, after getting to know me and my hang-ups and what makes me the crazy (for better or for worse) person that I am, I would be interested to know if the person would stick around, despite what they had learned.
I guess my self esteem has gone up a bit in the last couple of months...